WARNING: Links that are in bold are to very gruesome pictures and video. If you choose to view them, it is at your own risk. I include them to show the extent of the savagery of elements who are of key importance to Americans
While I realize that the title of this post would qualify for a “No s***!” response by many of the regulars, there are a number of naive persons, particularly in our government, who seem to not get that.
In Europe, Russia has taken Crimea and has invaded Ukraine. While most European nations appear to be outraged at this development, it’s not like they are in a position to present a material threat to a Russia that is led by a sly, intelligent strategist who wishes to return Mother Russia to her old glory and has warned the world of his country’s nuclear capacity.
The United States is in no credible position to fight this one, and Putin knows it. We are downsizing our military, the public does not have the political will for a war with Russia, we have neither the troops in the pipeline nor the money in the war chest to fight them, and a draft would be a political disaster. Similarly, Western Europe is not exactly in a high state of combat readiness on this one either.
Other than economic sanctions and protests to and from the United Nations, Ukraine is on her own. Russia will almost certainly win this one, and–make no mistake–this is a major blow to the power of the United States.
Meanwhile, in Syria and Iraq, ISIS/IS/ISIL/Whatever-the-hell-they-call-themselves today continues to take air bases, oil fields, and cities, imposing Sharia-on-steroids, mass executions, strangling women to death, forcing Christians to “convert or die”, and selling Yazidi women into sex slavery.
Our Defense Secretary–Chuck Hagel, a Purple Heart veteran of Vietnam who should know better–says that “ISIS is beyond anything we’ve seen”. Apparently, he has forgottten about the atrocities of the Japanese in WWII, the Nazi concentration camps, the killing fields in Cambodia, Mao’s slaughters in China, The NVA’s atrocities against South Vietnamese, Stalin’s purges and mass murders, Lenin’s Cheka, the Turkish genocide against the Armenians, but I digress.
No, seriously, while the violence of ISIS is troubling, it is comparable to what often goes on south of our own border.
What’s the difference between ISIS strangling a woman to death and a cartel enforcer beheading a teenage girl?
Mexican carteliers also seek to intimidate in ways that ISIS can appreciate, beheading enemies with chainsaws.
And while Iran is known for hanging criminals, Mexican cartels are doing the same.
I realize that Cartels are, at least technically-speaking, outlaws, even if we have been known to provide weapons to them. The same can be said for ISIS, which wages war against recognized sovereign governments. Oh wait, we armed them, too.
While it is true that most of the extreme cartel violence is south of our border, Mexico is flooding our country with “children”, some of whom work for the cartels. At least ISIS is over there, not over here.
But I’m sure that our Dear Leader, who has admitted that he has no strategy for dealing with ISIS, has this under control.
I heard a true story recently, first-hand. The teenage daughter met a boy at a church camp a year ago, and they developed a long-distance, chat friendship/relationship. This turned into a bullying, manipulative, abusive, inappropriate relationship from the boy. The parents saw the chats and intervened, including immediately talking to their pastor about the events. Immediately the pastor stated this would need to be reported to the authorities and then proceeded to do so. He told the parents this was required and not an option.
Yes! With all the pastoral staff getting it wrong in this world, there is at least one guy out there getting it right.
I haven’t been following the Greg Kelley child rape case, but a number of people whom I follow on Twitter–including Boz Tchividjian–have been opining about it.
In this instance, you have a popular high school football player, living in a house that functioned as an in-home day care, accused of sexually-assaulting two 4-year-old boys. One of the boys waffled, there was no forensic evidence, Kelley had a fair number of character witnesses–including a football coach–and few enemies, not to mention a clean record. So many people made it their Christian duty to proclaim the glories of his innocence.
Among the arguments:
In the interest of fair disclosure, I don’t know Kelley, so I can’t say if he’s innocent or guilty. I do know this much, however: a jury of his peers heard the case–including even his own testimony–and found him guilty of two counts of super aggravated sexual assault, which meant he faced 25 years to life in prison.
In a plea deal reached in the penalty phase, Kelley admitted guilt, waived his right to appeal, and in return received 25 years. He’ll be in his 40s when he leaves prison, and will have to register as a sex offender.
As for the arguments that others have made, they sound very familiar.
Do children lie about being molested? Yes–those of us who are old enough can recall the McMartin preschool case, and I know of some firsthand accounts of false accusations within the foster case system–but it’s not as common as one thinks.
A child sex offender often has a very clean record–older ones usually pass background checks–and the first indication of any problem is the arrest.
A child sex offender rarely fits the mold of the reclusive, creepy pervert. In fact, many are affable, popular, and good with kids.
A child sex offender will pick his spots well, and usually does a spectacular job avoiding being noticed abusing children. Some of them are so sly that they will abuse children in front of other adults without being noticed.
A child sex offender will often have a mother lode of character witnesses–often old ladies–who will swear that “he’s such a kind soul; he would never hurt a fly.” They become unwitting enablers.
Sometimes, victims will recant, and the reasons can be complex. Is it always because the story was made up? Uh…no. In fact, I know of cases were accusations were likely recanted because someone coerced the victim into recanting.
The only thing I see in Kelley’s defense here: he’s not old enough to be slick and manipulative. (Then again, that might be why the law caught him.)
I tend to be in the camp of letting the justice process work. Do people get wrongly convicted of heinous crimes? Absolutely. If Kelley is one of those so convicted, I hope he receives his vindication.
OTOH, I tend to be in the camp of letting the process work. We have jury trials for a reason, and Kelley used all of his options, including taking the stand. He lost.
I realize that many will swear to his innocence, but the jury saw otherwise.
I cast my lot with the jury.
I had to say that, because of the headline in this article. (HT: Vox Day)
Women who have several sexual partners before getting married have less happy marriages – but men do no harm by playing the field,a study has found.
According to new research by the National Marriage Project, more than half of married women who had only ever slept with their future husband felt highly satisfied in their marriage.
But that percentage dropped to 42 per cent once the woman had had pre-marital sex with at least two partners. It dropped to 22 per cent for those with ten or more partners.
But, for men, the number of partners a man they appeared to have no bearing on how satisfied they felt within a marriage.
Researchers said the study showed that sex with many different partners ‘may be risky’ if the woman is in search of a high-quality marriage.
Don’t shoot me, I’m just the messenger.
If these accounts are correct, then Mark Driscoll needs to at least be suspended, and his leadership needs to get serious about demanding that any return to the ministry be contingent on apologizing to the individuals involved as well as demonstrating, through a pattern of conduct, newfound humility.
As for how long he needs to be out, that’s a matter for his leadership to determine. But he definitely needs a hiatus if these charges are true.
This is not about rants he made 14 years ago under an anonymous moniker. Nor is this about his occasional juvenile antics. This is about basic ministerial comportment, and fostering a healthy Christian culture.
Mars Hill is in need of a major cultural orientation. The Acts 29 model–which Driscoll himself created–is indeed a good one, now it is on Driscoll to demonstrate the personal humility to abide by the terms of accountability that such a framework provides.
Professor Hale has this to say about Ferguson, MO.
Sadly, I agree with him. I wish he were wrong, but I believe he’s spot on here.
I figured it would be a matter of time before a major outlet started covering the sex abuses and coverups at Sovereign Grace Ministries.
The Washington Post has jumped into the fray, with a surprisingly light article.
The SGM scandal makes the all the televangelist scandals look comparatively petty. Jim Bakker and Jimmy Swaggart–the two poster children for scandal in the 1980s–engaged in consensual immoralities with other adults.
SGM, on the other hand, conspired not to report the sexual abuses of a former staffer.
C.J. Mahaney claims he had nothing to do with any of that, when in fact it all happened on his watch, on his ship, with his people, and his culture.
While I am a skeptic of Ergun Caner–his claims to be a former Jihadi are not congruent with known facts–I empathize with him regarding the suicide of his son Braxton. That’s not something a father should have to endure.
Apparently, a minister named J.D. Hall had badgered Braxton about his father. Not only was that inappropriate in that Braxton is not responsible for his father’s actions; it was also Braxton’s duty to honor his father, even though his father was short of the glory in some aspects of his life. Hall should have been a catalyst for Braxton to honor his father, not undermine his father’s place in his life.
While Hall appears to be quite repentant, the whole episode is a reminder of what to do–and not to do–regarding the confrontation of sin.
Confront the offender. Don’t take it out on the wife, the children, or other relatives.
Otherwise, you are misrepresenting the Gospel and showing a reckless disregard for the mercies of God.
Ergun Caner is wrong, and is worthy of censure.
His son did not deserve to be attacked for the offenses of his father.
Many years ago, after pro tennis player Chris Evert married Andy Mills and had settled into motherhood, she said something to the effect that her prior life had been all about her. The way she said it led me to think she had at least one prior abortion. While she’d had an otherwise solid reputation, I also figured that no one is pristine.
In 1974, when Jimmy Connors and Chris Evert had their romance, I was in first grade. I knew little to nothing about tennis–although I would become an avid player and fan in my teen years–but I remember Chris Evert becoming a household name. Jimmy Connors, who won three of the four majors that year, wasn’t bad in his own right.
They had been engaged, but broke off that engagement quite abruptly. Most had chalked that up to some combination of Connors’ playboy lifestyle–he would eventually marry a Playboy playmate–and their youth, as well as the logistics of two top-ranked tennis players being under the same roof.
Well, last year, Connors, in his autobiography, provided more insight into the breakup. During their youthful bliss, Chris Evert became pregnant, and, well, that couldn’t get in the way of her career. In Connors’ own words, he didn’t really consent, but didn’t really fight it either. At any rate, after that, the relationship ended.
Connors and Evert would go their separate ways: Evert would become one of the greatest women tennis players of all time. Her winning percentage–over 90%–is the best ever, and Martina Navratilova probably accounts for most of that 10% of her defeats. Connors would enjoy his share of success: he would win five U.S. Opens and two Wimbledons, and a mother lode of other tournaments. Their personal lives were not without issues: Connors would marry, have children, and persevere despite his own infidelities; Evert would marry, have an affair, reconcile, divorce, remarry, have kids, have a midlife crisis, divorce, remarry, divorce, then really lose it.
Evert, by her own admission, described her attitude as one of entitlement.
The media raked Connors over the coals for talking about the abortion, with at least one outlet saying, “That isn’t his story to tell.” On that front, I disagree; the child was no less his than hers. While I understand Evert’s outrage at Connors’ outing her–no one likes having a skeleton in their closet put on full display–it is fair game.
Yes, Connors is a douchebag–and to a certain extent would probably wear the label–but it’s not like he doesn’t have the prerogative to discuss the impact of her decision on his life.
And yet we must all take in the warning here. Make no mistake: your character will eventually catch up with you. It may not always become a public matter, but–at some point–you are going to come face-to-face with the reality of your decisions.
Julius “Dr. J” Erving was an outspoken Christian in addition to being one of the most celebrated athletes in his day; with a reputation as a charitable gentleman, he often received cheers from opposing fans. Trouble is, he–for lack of better words–got around. An affair with a reporter would produce a child.
Doc would take responsibility: he provided for her financially, including her education. But he tried to keep everything hush-hush.
In 1999, an up-and-coming tennis player–Alexandra Stevenson–would make a splash of her own: she reached the semifinals at the 1999 Wimbledon. Some reporters did some digging into her background, and noticed that the father listed on her birth certificate was none other than Julius Winfield Erving. This would begin the public unraveling of Doc’s otherwise sterling reputation, as his infidelities would lead to the breakup of his marriage.
I say none of this to pile onto Doc or Chrissy. Truth be told, they are probably far from the worst offenders in their respective sports.
Still, the lesson here is poignant.
So let’s see…we have a leader whose pastoral staff covered for at least one sexual predator. His materials are kosher at LifeWay.
We have a self-described feminist who supports macro-evolution and is soft on homosexuality–and even has disavowed herself as an evangelical–and her materials are also legit at LifeWay.
OTOH, we have a leader who, while otherwise preaching and teaching sound doctrine, is known for some questionable rants–and some occasional youth-like mischief that is more annoying than harmful–but who, as far as we know, has not engaged in sexual improprieties nor covered for those who have. Because he is not good buddies with the powers that be, LifeWay has declared him persona non grata.
LifeWay–and the Southern Baptist Convention–are the real enemy here. They have fostered a corporate culture–for over 150 years and running–that makes Mark Driscoll look like an Eagle Scout. They have more issues with accountability structure in their churches than Driscoll has at Mars Hill.
Their seminaries are pumping out ministers who aren’t prepared to minister, who aren’t prepared to provide answers to the skeptics, or even answer the inquisitive teenagers who are being bombarded by skepticism. The ministers coming out of SBTS often lack the balls to stand up to their own wives, let alone the committees that can fire them from pastoral positions.
But that’s okay…because they ran Driscoll out of LifeWay, they can pat themselves on the back and say they saved the Christian faith.
Meanwhile, they keep swallowing camels.