Roissy Nails It…Sorta

(HT: Vox Day)

While I do not endorse Roissy’s hedonist worldview, it is pretty sad when a secular atheist libertarian hedonist is making more sense than these two-bit metrosexual “Gentle Jesus Meek and Mild” preachers who infest the evangelical world.

Chalk this up to the latest sign that marriage — versions 1.0, 2.0, and coming to a theater near you, 3.0 — is a raw deal for men and an institution on the precipice of falling cliffside into a shattered heap of anachronistic uselessness. Wives are now leaving perfectly good marriages and their sacrificial beta provider husbands because they are bored. Naturally, they will be leaving with their husbands’ hard-earned cash to fund their adventures in swarthy saguaro hunting. Welcome to the Eat, Pray, Self-Love era of the Fall of America. Next stop: hyperinflation.

I found myself amused at the fetishists of MSM and their obsession with Julia Roberts, evidenced by their fawning over her lastest movie, Eat, Pray, Love.

You know that something with spiritual overtones is a crock of bovine ejectus when the world sucks up to it. The movie is based on an autobiographical account of a woman (Elizabeth Gilbert) who has an affair, and then divorces her husband and abandons her family to find her own happiness.

Instead of “enjoying the book”, we should call her for the selfish, destructive, degenerate acts that she inflicted on her family.

And yes, that happens in the Church; it is just wrapped in a more Christianized veneer. I know of a gal–a physician, disenchanted with her marriage–who, had a fling with another physician, who subsequently left his wife, and eventually married the doc after she left her husband. They are now medical missionaries. Oh, and did I say she and her ex had been small group leaders in their church?

I’ve never met a divorcee in the Church who was not “Biblically divorced”. They almost universally have sob stories about what an abusive, manipulative asshole their ex was. They talk about how they were “unequally yoked to a nonbeliever” and how they “Biblically let him go when he decided he wanted out”. When you’re a victim, nothing is ever your fault. Not even partially.

This is not to say there aren’t men who do the same thing; there are. But the no-fault divorce culture has triggered a slew of divorces–initiated mostly by the women–that have done our society one hell of a disservice.

:::end rant:::

The Little Things

I’m continually amazed at how it pays off to work at the small things in life . . .

We’re in the midst of a road trip season. Two down, two to go in the next five weeks.

We were able to go to a two car household this past weekend. (And on Day one, it’s already coming in mighty handy!) Getting back home was a mild adventure. If Amir lost visual of me for more than two minutes, he was calling . . .

“Where are you?”
“About .2 miles behind you . . . I can see you . . .”

There was also a couple of opportunities to lose our tempers. Like when I didn’t hear my cell phone ring after Amir tried calling multiple times.

Somehow, we kept our wits about us and never raised our voices.

In the midst of everything, I had this super-natural reassurance that everything is going to turn out alright.

God is faithful. He does not lead us into temptation. Ultimately, He delivers us from evil.

Shocked

The reason for writing this post was out of a bit of surprise at how prevalent this is, and yet men are the ones most often portrayed as the “bad” guys … which is a bit surprising given the reality that wives leaving their husbands is not only current, it is also not new.

My family and I went back to the small, county town my Husband grew up in this past weekend and stayed with a life-long friend he hasn’t seen in a looong time. As we sat around Friday night catching up, I was shocked, SHOCKED, at how many of the failed marriages they talked about were due to the wife leaving for another man. Actually, every single one of the numerous failed marriages was due to the wife leaving for another man ~ including my Husband’s first wife, and his friend’s first wife.

The image that women are innocent and men are ravaging wolves saturated with filthy lust and roaming eyes for a better woman than the one they’ve got is wrong. Some women are innocent. Some men are ravaging wolves. But little is mentioned in the church (or in my exposure in the church) about the fidelity (or lack thereof) of wives.

I’m still in shock at the revelations of this past weekend.